Write Romantic Love Letters : What Top Experts Say
Have you ever wanted to write romantic love letters to your spouse or sweetheart? Are you seeking to increase the intimacy and passion in your relationship in a way that only romantic messages can accomplish? Well, read on -- we asked 100 of the top experts to share their tips about how to write the best romantic love letters. And you won't believe how easy it is!
The most frequently offered tip from sex experts is that, when writing romantic letters, just be yourself. Use your own words and voice to express how you feel toward your partner, without getting overly schmaltzy or trying to play a role that you don't really agree with. Your partner fell in love with you, and you therefore need to come through clearly in your letters.
Be specific : most experts polled stressed that people learning to write romantic love letters to focus on familiar specific things when writing. Don't be vague, say what you mean and what you feel and what you want. Be specific in the details.
Be passionate: many people are too shy or embarrassed to express their passion for another human being. A prominent sex expert explains: "Showing off true, burning passion is not accepted in our society. Thus, most of us are repressed in our expressions." If you are writing a romantic letter, ignore thoughts of shame and fear and don't be suppress your true feelings.
True, passionate love, one of the most beautiful expressions of emotion in the world, is not just about platonic romance, candy and teddy bears. When writing romantic love letters, be erotic, be sensual, and don't instinctively feel you must censor yourself. Reach inside your inner lover, find your pit of burning sexual desire, and let it cascade through your pages like water spilling over a dam.
Finally, you could attempt a little something extra in your envelope. Scarlet red rose petals, a kiss of smeary lipstick, or something that might bring up a wonderful memory you and your partner share. Many sex experts suggest putting in a picture of a special time you had together so it will kickstart your lover's romantic memories.
Have you ever wanted to write romantic love letters to your spouse or sweetheart? Are you seeking to increase the intimacy and passion in your relationship in a way that only romantic messages can accomplish? Well, read on -- we asked 100 of the top experts to share their tips about romantic love letters. Good examples include the lipstick print of a kiss, rose petals, or some other object that reminds your partner of a precious shared memory: romantic memories can be stimulated by including a picture of the two of you from some special time together.
Published September 28th, 2007

